Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for a few years, and I know he think I'm the world to him, but sadly there are some days where I don't feel pretty and I feel like I could be sexier, and there are all these other girls with long legs and flawless skin, and it really gets me down sometimes. I have to wonder if that's what he really wants sometimes. Halp?
- Unpretty
Dear Unpretty,
Before I start, let me just tell you that there are many girls in your same position, dealing with the same insecurities. Don't feel as if you're alone.
What your boyfriend wants is you. Everyone goes days or weeks when they do not feel sexy. I am sick right now, and sexy is so not what I'm feeling. However, it's important in these times to have someone who appreciates us as much as we do and can see past your sickness, frumpiness, weight fluctuation, and anything else to let us know that we are sexy and desired.
You said that you know that your boyfriend thinks the world of you, enjoy that. Let his desire for you hold you up in your times of unsexiness. He loves your not "perfect" body exactly the way it is and if he didn't he wouldn't be there doting on you the way I assume that he does.
You don't need my help; you need to believe in his hugs and kisses. You need to trust in his gazes as you walk across the room. You need to wake up every morning and know that you are loved, desired, and most of all you are ALWAYS sexy.
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