I have been with women befor but, i'm a virgin with men. I think about men all the time and I know its not fantasy I really want to be with a guy, love him, touch him, kiss him, and hold him. How would you suggest I find a good guy with patience for a virgin?

Well that all depends on what you want out of the relationship. Now, I’m tell you that if you are seeking to remain a virgin this is going to be difficult. I actually handles that for a nother girl, you can read that here. However, if you are ready to or working towards losing your virginity this will be much easier. In fact if you are ready too/working towards losing your virginity then this isn’t much of an issue at all.

Most guys are or rather can be very accommodating to women if they know they are going to get sex out of it. That’s not to say that men are only accommodating to women that will give them sex, but it helps. Once you have found a guy that you want to go there with, then you need to lay it all out there. It may seem like a lot, but all you need to say is “look, while I’m not a virgin in the traditional sense, when it comes to guys I am very inexperienced. I’m totally down for whatever, but until I’m comfortable we are going to need to take this slowly.”

No matter what you’re looking for or how you handle it, it’s important to remember that virginity is not herpes and you don’t have to treat it like a disease. Virginity is simply a lack of experience, and as long as you’re willing to fill that void with something meaningful then it’s all good.

The advice I linked to in the first paragraph has a lot to do with religion, but if you’re not religious you can still use a lot of the information. If what I have here doesn’t help, call or text us at 702-LTASEX-0 or 702-582-7390.