Yea, women fucking love anal, too!
I feel as though there’s a taboo involving cis women who have anal sex. If you have a vagina, why go the other hole? How is there pleasure without a prostate? Well as a cis woman who likes it up the butt, I am here to dispel any misconceptions you have about anal sex.
It’s biological, duh!
We’ve all heard of the all-mysterious and glorious G-spot! Well, if you haven’t, it’s the cluster of nerves inside the vagina that create an intense feeling when stimulated. The space between the vagina and anus (the perineum) is a thin layer of skin and tissue. Needless to say, when you’re having anal sex, you can feel the stimulation in your vagina, and, yes, even on the G-spot. So do not be alarmed if your partner reports feeling pleasure in the vagina or, dare I say it, has an orgasm from anal sex. Try to imagine you’re living in an apartment with thin walls and you can hear everything in your neighbor’s place. So if fun times are happening with your butt then your vagina will know all about it as well.
Another biological reason cis women like anal sex is that the anus itself contains nerves just like the penis and vulva. So whether you use fingers, toys or a penis, you are stimulating those nerves and thus a good time is being had. However, no one person’s sensations are the same. So while some cis women will report loving the G-spot stimulation, others will mention liking the feeling of “fullness” from having an object in their anus. Some may experience discomfort or pain, but that’s what gets them off. It depends on the woman. Our assholes are like snowflakes: all different and equally beautiful.
Tabooty!
Anal sex has long been associated with homosexual men. So when cis women dare to dabble in the world of butt sex, people may be a little put off. As mentioned in my pegging article, don’t let society’s preconceived notions associated with one sexual act ruin your fun. This uneasiness we have about anal sex is what turns on many a cis woman. You’re partaking in an act that is technically banned in many states and countries today. You’re such a rebel, you naughty, naughty girl! You’re taking the hole less traveled. You’re doing an act that many find unclean, uncomfortable and just too kinky for their tastes. You decided to find out what many folks have known for centuries: Butt sex is pleasurable and not messy when you do it right.
Part of the reason the taboo exists is because sex for cis women is supposed to be for procreation due to sexist and heterosexist norms around sex. Since anal sex does not result in pregnancy, then what we really are talking about is women doing it for the sheer pleasure of it. And that, my friends, will scare the hell out of a lot of people.
It’s intimate
Due to it’s taboo nature and due to all the misinformation about it, the idea and practice of anal sex can take some time to get used to. You and/or your partner need to know your body and all its ins and outs. You can’t rush into anal sex. Take it slow, communicate and enjoy. You’ve realized you have a desire that some people may not be too keen to try. The anus is a tricky mistress, and many do not take to anal like a fish to water. When I started to have anal sex, I chose a person I could trust, and I knew they knew what they were doing. I knew my precious booty was in good hands. Anal sex will bring you closer, because you’re trying a new act with someone you trust. Sometimes it’s fun to bring a partner down the hole less traveled. The journey can get a little lonely.
So, you’ve got your toy or your partner, you’ve let go of those silly societal wives’ tales and misinformation and you gonna do it in the butt! Congratulations, miss thang. Will you like it right away? Maybe not. Is anal for every cis woman? Definitely not. But one thing is for sure: With plenty of lube and patience, anyone can enjoy the pleasures of butt sex.
So, let's hear it ladies! Who's out there living la vida anal? What do you like about it?
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