How to date with a unique fetish
I have a feeder fetish. It’s really the only thing that turns me on. I’m not really into making people gain weight, but watching people eat turns me on. I like it so much that, in an attempt to make my partners more likely to indulge me in my fetish, I went to culinary school. Unfortunately, even being a classically trained chef hasn’t helped me find a mate.
Every time I share my fetish with someone they, they look at me really odd and pretty much shut down. This has happened so many times that I have pretty much stopped dating. I’ve even sort of stopped enjoying cooking for people.
I really don’t want to feel so negative about my fetish, but it’s really hindering me romantically. I’m depressed and don’t feel like I’m worthy of anyone’s time. I need help either finding a cure or finding someone who won’t make me feel like I’m a disgusting person.
Reading your email makes me really sad. No one should ever be made to feel the way you feel simply because their brain doesn’t work the same way as most other people. If that were the case we could simply stop all civil rights movements and let the vox populi determine how the smaller populations should feel about themselves.
Although it may seem like it, your particular fetish is not as rare as those doucebags you’ve dated have made it feel. There are millions upon millions of people in the world who derive sexual pleasure, in one way or another, from food. Sure most of those people don’t have that feeling hardwired directly to their genitals, but that doesn’t really matter.
That little bit of knowledge is the first thing you need to know if you are ever going to come to love your sexuality the way it is. There is no cure for your fetish because there doesn’t need to be. You are perfect exactly the way you are.
To be honest, I’m rather puzzled as to why you couldn’t find some attractive guy or gal who would be willing to have a classically trained chef cook for them without the need to do anything to reciprocate. Even if it wasn’t in a relationship setting, there is bound to be someone in a college town who’s broke, hungry or just kind and open minded.
Have you ever considered that the way you broach the topic with your partners may be the reason they, inappropriately, run screaming? If you lay your kink out like it’s some sort of disease, people are going to regard it that way. But, if you regard it as just a quirky part of the person you are then people will regard it that way as well; especially since you’re not concerned with the weight gain part, which normally accompanies a feeder fetish.
My advice to you is to head to the internet. Put an ad up on CraigsList saying that you’re in the market to feed someone who’s hungry. Simply explain that cooking food and watching a person eat it turns your crank. Let them know that you aren’t looking for sex, but simply want to watch someone eat the food that you lovingly prepared for them.
Although it may take a while, I’m sure that someone out there will eventually be filling your inbox. Be patient and cheer up. You will find someone.
Keep it sexy.
Growing up an only child, I always wanted a Clifford the Big Red Dog-sized canine companion. Sadly, despite my best efforts, I entered into adulthood having unsuccessfully petitioned my mother for such a beast. At 26, however, I became the owner of a 5-foot-10-inch, 240-pound human pup by the name of Bubby.
Although I’ve always considered myself to be closer to vanilla on the kink spectrum, I’ve recently found myself being one kinky motherfucker. It started with a little roughness and led into a sadistic awakening. Now, a little puppy play has led into a budding full-time D/s relationship, and I am super excited.
Bottom line: While Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit isn’t a Christian Grey-type luxury item, it is wholly capable for almost every beginner restraint’s needs. With its high-quality, just-right pricing and simple, everyday kink styling, it should be right at home in your starter playroom.
I recently started dating a poly and kinky woman (T). She is married to her Dominant. They also have a live-in BDSM slave who is owned and collared like myself, but my relationship with T isn’t kinky. In fact, we’re careful to keep our relationship deliberately vanilla. Well, as vanilla as strap-ons and hair pulling can be. Why? Because of boundaries, my darling readers.
This phrase has become a bit of a joke within the kink community, based on individuals making this (grammatically incorrect) statement on kinky social networking sites. The profile where you will find this short, defiant statement will likely also be filled with other “twue” and inflexible declarations about what an awesome Dominate they are.
Proper spelling and grammar aren't required to be a good dominant but it does help! There are definitely more important things and they all come from the inside out.
Initially, I was taken aback by the question, “what does it mean to be a good submissive?” It is a very subjective question and you will get a million different answers from Dominants and submissives alike. So, let me preface this article by saying there is no one way to be a “good” submissive. However, there are steps one can take to ensure the growth and quality of your identity and relationships.
I recently did a Google Hangout interview with the fat femme lesbians of Lesbian Curves: Courtney Trouble, Kitty Stryker, Betty Blac and Cinnamon Maxine. Despite some major sleepiness on my part – we didn’t start recording until 1:36am ET – we had a good fucking time.
In this exclusive interview got to talk about Lesbian Curves 2: Hard Femme, mommy fetishes and Courtney Trouble’s love for April Flores. Betty Blac and Kit
ty Stryker got to discuss what it was like shooting with each other and the differences between Lesbian Curves and Lesbian Curves 2. We also got some juicy inside details on the already-in-production Lesbian Curves 3 from Courtney and Cinnamon soon after shooting the first scene, which stars Cinnamon Maxine and porn legend Syd Blakovich.
Of course, the best thing about rope bondage is the end result. Seeing a lover's body crisscrossed with rope is so-fucking-hot. In my mind, there is nothing more beautiful than a man unburdened of his strength, rendered helpless, bent and bound according to my wishes. Nothing is hotter than a man who is eager to give me control, and nothing turns me on quite like taking it.
When it comes to finding your kinks, fetishes and what turns you on in general, it’s all about experimentation. You’ve got to try lots of different combinations before you’ll find what skeets your jizz.
Normally, when you’re exploring things, you go outside yourself but, in this case, you need to look inside. The one thing you need to know about kinks is that they're all in your head. That means, in order to find them, you've got to get all inception in this bitch.
Whether you’re a dom who’s force feminizing your pretty little sub bitch or a guy who just likes to feel soft and feminine, you know how hard it is to find lingerie that fits a guy’s body. Well, I just stumbled across a store that fixes that problem. HommeMystere is an online store that specializes in men’s hosiery and lingerie for the pretty girl in every man.
The 4th of July is a time to celebrate independence and freedom. What better way to do that than to watch three women shoot fireworks out of their pretty pink assholes? In case you’re wondering: yes, fireworks fetish is a real thing. Some people find the pyrotechnics and loud booms to be just the thing to get their pussies wet.
You love your men tied up in bondage rope, gagged and vulnerable to your every whim? Yeah, so do we. There’s something incredibly sexy about watching your pitiful male sub writhe around helplessly while bound in intricate ropes and knots. The way the ropes keep him so still and vulnerable is enough to warrant a spanking. So, today, we’ve got a collection of pics and gifs of male submissives tied up and ready for their master's use. Enjoy.
You love your women tied up in bondage rope, gagged and vulnerable to your every whim? Yeah, so do we. There’s something incredibly sexy about watching your sexy sub writhe around helplessly while bound in intricate ropes and knots. So, today, we’ve got a collection of pics and gifs of hot chicks tied up and ready for you. Enjoy.
Welcome to Kink Month on LTASEX. This month, we’re going to be taking some time to appreciate and accentuate all those wonderful kinks and fetishes that make sex so much fun. We’ll be talking about kink, fetish, feet, legs, body hair, stockings, heels, ropes, chains and more body fluids than you can probably think of. We’ll also have some awesome guest posts and interviews from and with kinksters from all-over the sex bloggosphere. It's going to be sexy, slutty and fun, as always. ;)
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