Feb 19

Feb 19 First Hand Fisting/Anal Gauging: A Comprehensive Guide for Enthusiasts Advanced Anal Play

This guide is a thorough compilation of tips for anal expansion, including gauging, gaping, and beginner fisting practices for both partners. Drawing from personal experiences, it offers a broad spectrum of advice for those looking to enhance their anal play, whether you're progressing from penetrative sex to fisting, overcoming the final barrier to full fist insertion, or simply seeking proven tips for a more fulfilling fisting experience. Understanding both the giving and receiving roles is crucial, as mutual knowledge contributes to safer and more enjoyable encounters.

Feb 14

Feb 14 Embracing the Richness of Vanilla Sex: A New Perspective on Conventional Intimacy

Jerome Stuart Nichols

Sexual Pleasure, BDSM & Kink

Despite a diverse array of experiences in the realm of sexual exploration, including running a dedicated sex blog and engaging in various unique sexual activities, my preference leans towards what many might consider 'vanilla'. This term, often unfairly dismissed as mundane or uninspiring, couldn't be more misunderstood. Vanilla intimacy, contrary to popular belief, holds the capacity for profound openness, intimacy, and passion without necessitating a foray into kink.

Jul 3

Jul 3 First Hand Fisting/Anal Guaging Tips: moving up from penis or large toys to fist

Jerome Stuart Nichols

BDSM & Kink

These are gathered from firsthand experience and encompass a wide range of info. If you’re working from dick to fist, trying to get over the last hump to full insertion, or just looking for some hole tested tips for better fist fucking, this is the guide for you!

Jun 7

Jun 7 Vanilla sex is everything!

Jerome Stuart Nichols

BDSM & Kink, Sexual Pleasure

A long time ago, I tried to define vanilla sex, but I could never quite get it right.

Sep 18

Sep 18 14 signs you're a true dominant

Jerome Stuart Nichols

BDSM & Kink

Today, I got a message from some dude on some hookup app asking me for some dick. He said he was “tryna see how dominate you really are.” I scoffed.

Apr 29

Apr 29 Separation anxiety as a Dom can be a good thing

Jerome Stuart Nichols

BDSM & Kink

I miss my sub. Yes, I'm aware he's been gone for less than 90 minutes, but goddammit he is mine and I want him here.

Apr 21

Apr 21 Submission, obedience are choices a sub must make everyday

Jerome Stuart Nichols

BDSM & Kink

My partner and submissive currently is standing in a corner, facing the wall. He’s been bad, if you couldn’t guess. I got home about four hours ago and his behavior led to a fight that lasted three hours. His crime: being a little shit. I didn’t know it at first, but the fight wasn’t between him and me. The conflict, in fact, was between our inner drives for control.

Apr 13

Apr 13 8 creative incognito options for your sub's leash and collar

Jerome Stuart Nichols

BDSM & Kink, Dating & Relationships

Unfortunately, walking slaves, subs and human pups around in their proper uniform isn’t really going to sit well with people in most social situations. These tips will help you maintain your control and display your ownership incognito. You might be surprised by how much kinky sex shit you can get away with in public if you get creative.

Jan 26

Jan 26 8 essential tips for easy BDSM negotiation

Jerome Stuart Nichols

BDSM & Kink

Having recently entered into a full-time D/s relationship, I've been having to navigate the frigid and rocky waters of BDSM negotiation. From all my struggles, though, I've learned a few things. A few of which I’ve gathered here to assist fellow newbie kinksters.

Dec 29

Dec 29 11 tips for a BDSM kink twist on nipple play

Jerome Stuart Nichols

Sexual Pleasure, BDSM & Kink

In this group of advanced and expert nipple play techniques, we get into the sensations caused by temperature, pain and suspense. It’s the kinkier side of nipples.

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