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My guy and I have some really satisfying sex — the best sex I’ve had in my life, really. It wasn’t always like that, though. In fact, we’ve had to work at making sure our sex is great for both of us. Of all the things we’ve tried, asking a single question has made the most difference:
Only once have I thrown up while giving a blow job, yet I think last night makes four times in a year my partner has managed to throw up all over my erect cock and lap. Although I’ve probably now been thrown up on during sex more than your average person, it never gets easier.
The man I married and I were once very in love. We were once very sexual. Hell, we were at one point even mutually financially stable. And if all of those pieces had stayed in place, we might have had a fighting chance. And I stress “might.” There is no winning formula for a lasting, happy relationship, but there are myriad formulae for doomed, unhappy ones.
So, ask yourself these questions:
If your child walks into your bedroom without knocking and finds you in a compromising position, you have a problem — it’s just not what you probably think it is.
Who the fuck told people they could just bust a nut in someone’s mouth without warning? It’s just so rude.
As a person who’s loved sucking cock for a good long time now, I’ll admit that it’s very easy to get into a rut. You’ve got your old faithful tricks and blissful things you think of in the moment, but somehow it always seems to come back to bobbing on their shaft for dear life.
While that’s not 100 percent terrible – their cock is in our mouth, after all – there’s probably more we could be doing. These eight blow job tips are just a bit of that “more,” but for the person you’re sucking off, it will feel like a lot more.
I sat down with poly expert and host of the Poly Weekly podcast, Cunning Minx. We had a great time and she gave plenty of great advice for making the best of your poly relationship.
